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I have a lot of questions on the subject of Shemirat Habris.... Read More...
I am plagued by sexual fantasies, what can I do? Read More...
"How do you draw the line between what is ok to look at and what is not?" Read More...
"How do I know if I'm addicted to pornography?" Read More...
"How can G-d want us not to masturbate if it's something a person cannot control?"..Read More...
"How do I deal with this situation of not having any outlet whatsoever as permitted sexual experience?" Read More...
"I feel like busting. Is there anything I can do to cool down when turned on?" Read More...
"Has my mind become distorted forever?" Read More...
"My job and livelihood are totally dependent on the internet, but I often succumb. What can I do?" Read More...
"Anybody with a normal sex drive and no outlet for it will masturbate!" Read More...
"How can I tell my father about how much of a test this is for me? He will totally freak out!"...  Read More...
"What does "giving your self over to god mean"? What's wrong if we still believe that we can fix this ourselves? ...  Read More...
"How does one know that Hashem has accepted his Teshuva, especially for sexual sins?"... Read More...
"Why do you call pornography is an "addiction"? Anyone can control themselves if they want"...  Read More...
"The more these things are talked about in public the more people will think about them!" ... Read More...
"I Have done so many terrible sins. How can I start doing T'shuvah?" Read More...
"What can I do to prevent Nocturnal Emissions (Keri)?" Read More...
"Is having relations with a single girl or a gentile girl with a condom a sin?" Read More...
"What's the take on Traditional Jewish Dating vs. Modern Dating?" Read More...
"What's Rabbi Avraham Twerski's advice on dealing with pornography addictions for religious people?" Read More...
"What is the Breslov view on fixing the sins of masturbation?"...  Read More...
"Are Non-Jews expected to be sexually pure as well?"...  Read More...
I want the memories of my past mistakes erased without a trace, like a brand new piece of paper. Is this realistic? ...  Read More...
"My marriage is "Ok" but I am infatuated by my friend's wife!" ...  Read More...
"I decided to tell my wife about my porn addiction so we can work on it together. But she is taking it very hard"... Read More...
"I want to stop with porn and bad movies, but there isn't any Kosher entertainment out there!"... Read More...
"Doesn't looking for psychological explanations for the addiction merely serve as an excuse to act out?".... Read More...
"I don't trust filters. I've tried many of them and I have always been able to get around them. What do you suggest?" ... Read More...
"I got into a habit to e-mail and talk with an attractive girl just for fun. Do you have any advice?"... Read More...
"What are the limits of what is permitted with one's own wife?"... Read More...
"What if one's wife doesn't give herself over enough, won't a man search for it elsewhere?" Read More...
"Is it halachically permitted to look at porn if your going to have relations that night anyway?" Read More...
"I am dating, but whenever I go out with a girl, she doesnít excite me 'cause I remember all those beautiful models I used to look at." Read More...
"What is so important about group support and with opening up to others?" Read More...
"If the woman is past menopause and can't give birth anymore, why should anal and oral sex be prohibited?" Read More...
"Lately I find myself slipping and going to non-tznius sites. I need to go back to where itís not an Option".... Read More...
"Can somebody explain how this partner thing works. Has it helped anyone and how?"  Read More...
"The porn made me happy. I am empty inside now. Now that I gave it up, I don't know where to turn for happiness".  Read More...
"My wife doesn't enjoy martial relations, what do i do?" ...  Read More...
"Admitting powerlessness and having Hashem fight for us is contrary to the concept of Free Will".  Read More...
"Medically speaking, it is not possible for me to stop masturbating if I am not married" ...  Read More...
"Let me sin again today and tomorrow I'll say that what I did yesterday was G-d's will" ...  Read More...
"The girls I see in the street are so much s-xier than my wife. When will I feel real love for my own wife?" ...  Read More...
"I just failed after a whole month clean! I just want to cry. Is there any hope?" ...  Read More...
"Being too careful to guard one's eyes can cause a reverse effect - where women become even more tempting!" ...  Read More...
"I've stopped the bad stuff for a long time, but it's still so hard and so painful to guard my eyes on the street!" ...  Read More...

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